Stargate01 - primrose path, Andromeda "Chained maiden"

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Patient refers to it as stargate-oh-one	A Bully.1	Quandaries.1

TOOLSET

INFORMAL FALLACY

—Like crazy!

—Totally different.

—The reverse!

—MANY TIMES!

Moxie's

Disease

The Fallacy of Composition — Tries to apply something true of items or individuals within the group to the whole group.

NOTES TO MYSELF	PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE	CLASS
[primrose path] - They act so smooth and so nice, and everything they say brings up caldrons of hurt and bad feelings - They spend so much energy pretending they're normal, you can't say anything real - They scare people - (If people are scared, they'll do what you tell them) - They ask abrupt questions that nobody could know the answers to - There's no motivation behind it - They don't even know it: "You scared me, now I'll scare you!" - It's worse than if they knew what they were doing - They're such frightened little pansies, they want to feel secure - Shock & awe - The ones who don't know what they're doing are worse than the ones who know - They use leading questions, which seem easy and appropriate enough, until you get to the can of worms! Suddenly you're a pathetic, lying jerk!	The Age of Domination, ages 0-3	Murder

Exactly what someone said [or did]
... usually not very original.

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The thoughts of a "bad child"
... to free your mind again.

ATTACKS	BRIDGE	SILENT BACKUP
"Which one was at fault?"	—MANY TIMES!	—That's something you can't say ... Anyone, I don't know.
"Amen."	—MANY TIMES!	—It shows the total failure of mass education – Everyone is lying triple-time now: (1.) They don't believe in God; (2.) They can't say they don't believe in God; (3.) If they don't say the "right answer," they're disgraced.
"Fine, I'll just leave you to your thoughts."	—MANY TIMES!	—Richard Ravenough, dealer in mental diamonds – I don't even know how to drive.
"You have made many unfair assertions."	—Like crazy!	—School's not so good?
"You have made many untrue assertions."	—Totally different.	—Leaving you flat?
"You accused me of having a bad signature."	—Totally different.	—So that's your news?
"There is no such thing as a double positive."	—Like crazy!	—Yeah, yeah.
"Like there is no double positive, there is no opposite of 'false pretenses.' I keep forgetting that no one cares about anything anymore. I am a minority of one?" [Link]	—MANY TIMES!	—I'll tell you why! They have one thing -- a diploma!
"I become so simple everything can mystify me while nothing can comprehend me." [Link]	—The reverse!	—The whole trick is, be nice to people, and you'll get rid of all the meanies ... Of course, I was very young.
"There's an old Arab proverb, 'He who seeks to understand everything risks dying of anger.'" [Link]	—Totally different.	—You set up different scenarios, and then people gravitate to what they like ... If you think about it, really nice people like to sing.
"What's the opposite of 'false pretenses?'"	—The reverse!	—'Arabs think!' – They believe anything that anyone tells them – They're going to take over the world three ways: money, culture, and lying – There's no place sacred – Must have been a tribe – Next time come down the chimney.
"Have I committed a crime?"	—MANY TIMES!	—They say it's easy.
"Your comments made me raise my eyebrows."	—MANY TIMES!	—It's very powerful.
"You do realize that some of us have better things to do."	—MANY TIMES!	—I know how you feel.
"Your perception of things is not quite correct."	—Like crazy!	—It's old-age thrills.
"Your perceptions are incorrect."	—The reverse!	—One at a time.
"The freeyourbrain site seems focused on techniques to deconstruct NLP phrases and prevent their subliminal perception – Similar to another site, taxi1010.com, which is a little nutty." [Link from Cassiopaea Chat Group]	—Like crazy!	—It's just hard to explain.
"I think our buyer is getting steps away from finding us."	—The reverse!	—It's like laying bricks.
"Don't get the wrong idea." [Under their breath, having just made an unsuccessful physical pass at you]	—Like crazy!	—You lose two ways: When you're good, you lose, and when you lose, you lose.
"Pathetic fucking life!"	—The reverse!	—Now I'm ruined.
"You're not a liar, are you? ... or too weak to see this through." [Government "asset" trainer to Jason Bourne, in The Bourne Ultimatum]	—Totally different.	—I shouldn't teach you my secrets.
"I am a confused psychology undergraduate wet blanket that seems to lack the perception that others are insulting me."	—Like crazy!	—It just so happens for what you have, there's no help ... Sarcasm is anger's ugly cousin, Hate is the bride of jealousy, and I only have so much energy.
[Someone channel surfing ... just when you're absorbed in a particular show]	—Totally different.	—I know it's boring — One of these days I'm going to watch it with you.
"These Ephesian folk overshadow even psychotic taxi drivers' obsessive- compulsive ways. And that is saying a helluva lot." [Someone from the Portal of Evil Saloon]	—Like crazy!	—You're going to think I'm the best friend you ever had.
"Don't be a jerk."	—The reverse!	—Don't worry about it! Take a powder!
"Jerk me, you faggot."	—Totally different.	—Sad sack seeking sex.
"JERK!"	—Like crazy!	—IT'S WORTH IT!
"This cab's mine!"	—Like crazy!	—No adult.
"You're a jerk!"	—Like crazy!	—Don't include me.
"You're also a liar!"	—Totally different.	—Maybe it's you.
"You're asking for it!"	—Like crazy!	—What is a mushroom that likes to have a good time? (A fun guy!)
"I'm asking you as a friend." [To help him cheat]	—Like crazy!	—The real cheat is to pretend you're stupid.
"I think you're a fucking loser."	—Totally different.	—I'm talking to you, aren't I? [Also see, Peer Pressure]
"Well, if I got upset with my parents every time they verbally abused me for something I did wrong, I don't know, maybe I'd have a different attitude. But, you know, verbal abuse is in the mind of the beholder." (–Senator Saxby Chambliss, R-Ga.)	—Totally different.	—Don't scare me.
"Don't you think maybe you're going overboard?"	—The reverse!	—If a man speaks in the forest, and his wife isn't there, is he still wrong?
"Just a thought, as asinine as it may be."	—Totally different.	—Words replace vague unspoken fears.
"That's pathetic."	—Totally different.	—It's a vicious culture — Anyone who is at all different is just smashed.
"Pathetic comebacks."	—Like crazy!	—You could be honest.
"You're wrong."	—The reverse!	—Most people cave in at a very early age — They just do not want to be different.
"You're going the wrong way."	—Totally different.	—I'm not so sure about that.
"How is something that is bad different from something that is wrong?"	—Totally different.	—Being wrong is not bad; being bad is not wrong – Some things can't be helped; some things can't be rushed – Don't try to find yourself in a mess – How could your self be in a mess? You could be under it.
"I'm going the wrong way, I know." [Attacking themselves]	—Like crazy!	—You're a diamond in the rough.
"Something very wrong with you."	—Like crazy!	—It's just dreams to cover up your impulses.
"You guys are making wrong choices and you're telling lies."	—Totally different.	—You want to have a nice life, and I do, too!
"Is something wrong?"	—Totally different.	—Tell me when it's better.
"The United States has displayed an arrogant air, used lame arguments, confounded right and wrong and made groundless accusations against China." —Foreign Minister Tang Jiaxuan	—Totally different.	—A mature person would not insult you.
"You're lying!"	—Like crazy!	—Why should I?
"What made you pick this up, Mary?" [a rental tape in a video store]	—Totally different.	—That's mystical, too, isn't it?
"Look! A small version of you!" [on TV]	—Totally different.	—It's very easy to communicate with someone who doesn't listen to you.
"If you spent a little more time praying to God and a little less time being willful, the world would be a better place."	—Like crazy!	—I haven't seen you in Church in quite some time.
"You don't really do that much ... just stay at home doing nothing."	—Totally different.	—That doesn't happen often.
"Once a philosopher, ..."	—MANY TIMES!	—Also, I have secrets of the soul.
"Pretty far from home, huh?"	—Totally different.	—A giant, warm wet spot.
"Do you like it better here than in Boston?"	—Totally different.	—It's a lateral move.
"You're a better man than I am."	—Like crazy!	—Don't tell anyone you know!
"Better late than never."	—Totally different.	—Thank you for taking that philosophically.
"You're better than me?"	—The reverse!	—Keep that in the back of your mind.
"Is it my fault?"	—Like crazy!	—Keep checking.
"That's your fault!"	—Like crazy!	—Don't take too much credit.
"Oh, it's all my fault!"	—Totally different.	—You can believe what you want, but I don't believe that.
"You're a loser."	—MANY TIMES!	—Part of one big machine.
"You're stuck."	—Like crazy!	—You don't have to be.

REFLECTIONS

31-MAY-1999.

Finding Yourself in the «seishin byooin»

I have a funny memory from childhood, a wordless memory, really, triggered from stumbling on an escalator. As my right arm shot out to break my fall, I fully recalled a moment I was learning to walk.

At the age of two, I realized I could crawl across the room at about ninety miles an hour, much faster than walking, which I determined to be a huge waste of time, if not dangerous. I remembered scooting across the room on all fours, like a chicken caught out of his eggplant.

"Come on, Ridgey," Mom gently coaxed, "You can walk!"

We have so many bound-up memories. Have you ever been so focused on asking a particular person on a date, when amidst a torrent of strange words (tightening the noose in your belly), you hear someone else say, "Why don't you take Kathy Jo, here — She'd love to go?"

Suddenly the shock of rejection hits you, and in the weirdness of playing musical chairs, you really don't know how to avoid hurting Kathy Jo's feelings — I mean, what had she done?

I want to get back to primitive crawling.

Okay. Last week in the checkout line at the United Airlines Employees Cafeteria, a certain huge woman strolled right up to the cash register on the other side of the aisle and loudly proclaimed, "Is this line open?" Magenta on black, the cash register display, just by her ham salad, read "C-L-O-S-E-D."

These are strange moments, aren't they? No one ever taught me to cry out, "—Too early!"

"Come on, Ridgey — You can walk!"

"Why don't you take Kathy Jo, here — She'd love to go?"

"Is this line open?"

Because my emotional system was frozen at a preverbal level, I was tricked into having the emotions of a child rather than the emotions of an adult — I couldn't even realize these people were just trying to "jump the gun."

So, who teaches royalty, like Chelsie Clinton, or the Prince of Wales, how to be gracious and kind? Are they schooled in such a thing? Do they have tutors?

The Aim of taxi1010.com is:

(1) to provide knowledge, which a person can blend with experiences, to create understanding.

KNOWLEDGE + EXPERIENCE ==> UNDERSTANDING

(2) To stir up plenty of ideas to nourish growth of the inner child from the past.

TIME + UNDERSTANDING ==> HEALS ALL WOUNDS

(3) To stimulate good cheer in the pursuit of self-understanding.

A PERSON'S INNER ATMOSPHERE ==> THEIR CHARACTER

(4) To illuminate the underside of life, where people break all the rules.

A PERSON'S CHARACTER ==> THEIR FATE

(5) To rein in the importance of people who propagate fear and intimidation.

People have a reliance on "what" the emotions point to rather than an understanding of their inner meaning; the "target" of emotions rather than their "triggers"; "husks" rather than "kernels."

(6) To contact the part of myself that dreams at night.

The inner child thrives on liking, acceptance, focusing its attention, clarity, comprehending, making mistakes in the process of learning, a sense of humor, and a subtle wise light.

The eighty-eight pages from stargate01 to stargate88 reflect the story of a person's life, from infancy to young adulthood. You can find the framework for this in the Site Map below. In the left column are six Psychological Ages, from toddler to child to kid to nut to teenager to grownup. In the next column are the twenty-two Major Arcana from the Book of Tarot, in a one-to-one correspondence with certain "Patients" in a Japanese Mental Hospital, the «seishin byooin». By thinking of an attacker as a "Patient," you institutionalize him or her, and in so doing, reduce their importance.

Also in the third column is an insult "Class" — one of Murder, Separation, Rules, Challenges, Unreal Impulses, or Wild Expectations.

Finally, in the rightmost column are numbers corresponding to stargate01.htm through stargate88.htm along with a "Diagnostic" ranging from Ambush to Veiled Hatred — twenty-two in all.

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Psychological
Age of Development

Book of Tarot
(Buried
Treasure)

Patient
(Class)

stargate##.htm
Diagnostic

Domination

1 of 6

The age of DOMINATION, ages 0-3, in which the typical child is introduced to an older sibling, a teacher, a mother and a father.

The Magician.
(Wonder)

I.
A BULLY
(Murder)

1.	Quandaries.1
2.	Intimidation.2
3.	Nagging.3
4.	Coercion.4

The High Priestess.
(Security)

II.
A BELITTLER
(Separation)

5.	Interrogation.3
6.	Reference.2
7.	Embarrassment.1
8.	Intimidation.3

The Empress.
(Consciousness)

III.
A CAJOLER
(Rules)

9.	Loftiness.1
10.	Hatred.2
11.	Nagging.4
12.	Quandaries.4

The Emperor.
(Individuality)

IV.
A NITWIT
(Challenges)

13.	Nagging.1
14.	Put-Downs.2
15.	Ambush.3
16.	Embarrassment.3

Attention

2 of 6

The age of ATTENTION, ages 4-7, in which the child develops a roving mind, with an intelligence an order of magnitude more complex than its younger incarnation.

The Hierophant.
(Sincerity)

V.
A CURMUDGEON
(Murder)

17.	Masking.2
18.	Coercion.2
19.	Hatred.1
20.	Sadism.1

The Lovers.
(Fascination)

VI.
A BUSYBODY
(Separation)

21.	Veiled Hatred.2
22.	Intimidation.1
23.	Put-Downs.3
24.	Teasing.1

The Chariot.
(Care)

VII.
A DISTRACTER
(Rules)

25.	Interrogation.2
26.	Harassment.2
27.	Ambush.1
28.	Nagging.2

Justice.
(Will Power)

VIII.
A SPOILER
(Challenges)

29.	Give-And-Take.4
30.	Delusions.2
31.	Blackmail.4
32.	Masking.3

Self-Expression

3 of 6

The age of SELF-EXPRESSION, ages 8-11, in which a child begins to encounter adult sexuality, exclusion, duplicity, and confrontation.

The Hermit.
(Whimsy)

IX.
A VIOLATOR
(Murder)

33.	Fantasy.3
34.	Hatred.4
35.	Give-And-Take.1
36.	Delusions.4

Wheel of Fortune.
(Zest)

X.
A HYPOCRITE
(Separation)

37.	Harassment.4
38.	Blackmail.1
39.	Loftiness.3
40.	Teasing.4

Strength.
(Confidence)

XI.
A MANIPULATOR
(Rules)

41.	Interrogation.4
42.	Coercion.1
43.	Obliqueness.2
44.	Undermining.2

The Hanged Man.
(Compassion)

XII.
A DEMOLISHER
(Challenges)

45.	Masking.1
46.	Veiled Hatred.1
47.	Harassment.3
48.	Blackmail.2

Insanity

4 of 6

The age of INSANITY, ages 12-15, in which a teenager goes nuts for various reasons. He or she tries to blend hormonal spontaneity with childhood notions of self-control.

Death.
(Certainty)

XIII.
A USURPER
(Unreal Impulses)

49.	Veiled Hatred.4
50.	Fantasy.4
51.	Undermining.4
52.	Sadism.4

Temperance.
(Beauty)

XIV.
A PROVOCATEUR
(Wild Expectations)

53.	Blackmail.3
54.	Reference.4
55.	Delusions.1
56.	Loftiness.4

Detachment

5 of 6

The age of DETACHMENT, ages 16-19, in which a teenager knuckles down to the serious business of being good. This etiquette is then turned against him or her.

The Devil.
(Presence)

XV.
A CRACKPOT
(Murder)

57.	Teasing.3
58.	Embarrassment.2
59.	Fantasy.1
60.	Undermining.3

The Tower.
(Kindness)

XVI.
A BLOWHARD
(Separation)

61.	Teasing.2
62.	Obliqueness.1
63.	Put-Downs.4
64.	Give-And-Take.2

The Star.
(Participation)

XVII.
A PATRONIZER
(Rules)

65.	Harassment.1
66.	Sadism.2
67.	Quandaries.3
68.	Masking.4

The Moon.
(Equilibrium)

XVIII.
A SCHEMER
(Challenges)

69.	Embarrassment.4
70.	Veiled Hatred.3
71.	Delusions.3
72.	Reference.1

Significance

6 of 6

The age of SIGNIFICANCE, ages 20-23, in which a young adult wonders what it's all about. Is everybody just A Bogeyman, A Reformer, A Turncoat, or A Stooge?

The Sun.
(Spontaneity)

XIX.
A BOGEYMAN
(Murder)

73.	Sadism.3
74.	Hatred.3
75.	Give-And-Take.3
76.	Put-Downs.1

Judgment.
(Warmth)

XX.
A REFORMER
(Separation)

77.	Loftiness.2
78.	Ambush.4
79.	Obliqueness.4
80.	Intimidation.4

The World.
(Trust)

XXI.
A TURNCOAT
(Rules)

81.	Undermining.1
82.	Reference.3
83.	Fantasy.2
84.	Interrogation.1

The Fool.
(a wonderful heart)

XXII.
A STOOGE
(Challenges)

85.	Ambush.2
86.	Quandaries.2
87.	Coercion.3
88.	Obliqueness.3

Because experience is by nature solitary, most people don't get practical on-the-spot assistance when they get into difficulties. I hope the reader finds nourishment in these pages to repair his or her memories of the past, and as a series of diligent gestures, to prepare for wonderful events in the future. Most of life is a fluid string of events, seething with possibility and change, and rationally unknowable. The knots of trouble, however, are subject to analysis.

taxi1010.com is filled with responses a person can consider using in those situations, like bubbles in the stream. Always ask, "What do I believe in?" "What do I like?" and "What sees all this?" Then look for something inside yourself like a subtle wise light.

13-MAY-2008.

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Andromeda
"Chained maiden"

—Totally different.